You are going through a crisis of a couple, conflicts with your ex seem insurmountable, so you think of the irremediable solution because you do not see any alternative. Leaving your partner is the most effective way to end the quarrels that exist between you and the one who shares your life, but it is also the most radical. Sometimes the love that can exist or could exist is not enough to find a solution to the problems that may exist.
Yet, is not it too pessimistic to think so? Would not you have some regrets once past the anger? Do you really think that your situation can not be solved thanks to the dialogue, to the efforts made on both sides and especially to targeted actions?
By knowing the right method, but especially by mastering it by getting the advice of an expert in the life of a couple you will realize that the breakup is not always the only option left for you to improve your love affair. I propose you to know more immediately by discovering this article.
Rupture as a way to end the couple's problems
When the couple problems are more and more difficult to manage and that your love story becomes a perpetual conflict with your partner, a solution is necessarily necessary in your eyes. Put an end to your story.
It is sometimes the accumulation of disputes or tensions that becomes more and more complex to live and manage on a daily basis. Therefore you do not see any other way out than to break.
It is not for lack of feelings, or linked to a loss of love that you make this decision but simply because you consider that the happiness to two, is not possible with this person, or rather is not MORE possible because you have still given a chance to your couple. Although it may seem selfish to others, especially your mutual friends but also your ex, you make this decision for your own good and not for pleasure.
Leave a man or a woman or at least making it a threat can create an electric shock and push your partner has changed his attitude and take him / her also initiatives to put an end to this crisis.
However launching an ultimatum does not work systematically and can create even stronger tensions. This is why we must handle this "threat" carefully as I explain in this article.
breaking is an easy way?
There are times when the life of a couple has really become impossible especially after an infidelity, trust is no longer at the rendezvous and you have trouble blooming in your relationship. This subject of argument often comes back on the table and you do not want to live it anymore, I understand you perfectly, and I know, from my experience that there are very difficult and painful moments in the sentimental life.
Nevertheless, I notice a second thing through the many coachings that I realize daily. Men and women today are separating far too easily. We end a relationship in the space of a moment under the pretext of some disagreements and especially because we do not want to make the necessary efforts to improve the life of a couple when everything is still possible. It's easier to tell your partner that you need distance rather than taking the lead to try to pick up the pieces little by little by showing a real change.
I may be idealistic but I am convinced that in love, there is a solution to solve all crises. I'm not saying that it just takes a few days to prevent a divorce or that a romantic dinner will be enough to make you forgive, but a medium or long-term action plan with powerful actions is always possible and the deal can change . You still have to want it and especially to take things in hand to put in place what it takes.
Certainly, as I said, there are times when the break-up becomes a necessity, I think especially of battered women who wish to protect themselves in this case I can not in any case claim that breaking is a solution of ease. I am speaking to all the other couples who have the cards in hand to improve their history. My words always require a step back and analysis to fit your story.
Solutions less radical than separation exist!
If you are regular readers or frequent readers of this site you have surely read the last article that I devoted to break in the couple if it's not the case I invite you to discover it immediately, without forgetting to give me your impressions in the comments section. If I make another reference to this method of taking the distance without permanently breaking your love story is because it is an excellent compromise to avoid acting in a hurry.
As I reminded you, couples break up too fast today, but using this method you will act differently. You will take the time to think and not rush your decision. I do not count the number of people who have used my services after regretting having broken. Attention, this is not a criticism, but a statement that I want to bring you so that you avoid making the same mistake and have the same regret. The absence of your partner can be difficult to live and make a break so would be the ideal solution.
The solution that is essential and that makes it possible to put an end to any crisis of couple is obviously the communication. However, you must know when to use it. If your couple is working badly, it's partly that you have a communication problem that needs to be fixed as quickly as possible. When we do not know well or we do not understand his partner, his expectations, his needs, it is normal for the couple to move away and crack. For more information I have also booked a full article on communication in the couple that you can find by clicking on the link.
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