Being in a relationship is not always a pleasure. We think we know the person who shares our life but sometimes it changes completely over time (or not!) And we do not recognize it anymore. Living with a woman who does not always have the right behavior can be very frustrating. If you have reached this article, it is precisely because you are having this problem with your half who is making quirks. You love her, you really care about her, but her daily behavior becomes more and more difficult to live. But we must not dramatize everything because I also know that some women, who behave in this way will read this article and will want to change after becoming aware of their defect. All is not lost.
We often have this image of the woman as a couple in love, jealous sickly and very attached to his man and moreover, most guys are looking for that kind of women, that is to say, who get involved in the couple, which shows that she is attached to him so it is not necessarily a defect. However, there is another cliché that is very widespread and a little less appreciated by the male, that of the woman who makes quirks and I do not speak only teenagers because even men of 40 years can make this reproach to their half. It is obvious that men are not free from reproach and I am the first to say it, but today, I would like to focus instead on the bad behavior of women in love and how to put an end to revive his love life.
How to proceed when my wife is capricious and his behavior puts the couple at risk? Should we always agree to give in and if not how to set limits? Can it change over time? We ask ourselves a lot of questions when we are in this case it shows one thing: given the situation you feel concerned and you hold your relationship because your goal is to save him.
My wife is capricious, is it my fault?
In love we often tend, especially when things go wrong, to feel guilty, even blame themselves when we are not responsible for anything. It's perfectly normal, you're far from being the only one and even when the reproaches are directed towards the one who shares your life and concerns only his behavior, you have the impression of having a part of responsibility and of to be the one who is the cause of all this.
When everything is fine in his relationship it is thanks to both people and when there is a problem it is also the case, all does not rest on your shoulders. I am both direct and honest with you, that's what makes me different from other coaches, you could also play a role in the fact that it does not behave in the right way everyday by showing you too much nice, too naive, never saying no to his requests which multiplied. The human being often acts in a rather particular way, whether one is a man or a woman for that matter.
We can not be satisfied with the minimum. If your wife blackmails youbeg you to get something and you systematically give in, she will have no reason to stop and that is where you make a mistake, you do not put any limits on this situation, which can only be reproduce…
How to make a capricious woman change?
Say to yourself My wife is capricious "Reveals a desire for change, it's not a simple reflection that you've made today and that will happen tomorrow.You are on this article for help and this proves that it's not right and you have maybe even think about breaking up or, taking a step back and not giving yourself any more for the couple.
If this is the case, it is important to act and it begins by adopting a better way to communicate because if you do nothing but especially if you do not say anything, your wife may not realize that she acts in a way that does not satisfy you. The first thing to do is to express yourself, you do not have to do not be afraid to stand up to him and express yourself. If you are in a relationship with someone who scares you, you will never be happy.
We will have to be more strict, firmer and not give in to his requests. If it's so capricious it may be because you give it all, and you never impose yourself, it's time for it to change because it's easy to criticize your wife but when your own attitude is not the same. good, the latter is not the only one responsible. So you have to put your finger on your attitude because often it is a kind of emotional dependence that is at the root of all this or a certain idealization of his companion. If nothing changes, she still considers you "weaker" which can even more important relationship issues.
I must accept that my wife has different desires from mine
It is important to know and accept that the woman who shares our life will probably not be never so perfect as we imaginethere will always be traits of character, habits, ways that we will not like and know that all this is reciprocal.
Indeed, when you say "my wife is capricious" she too can blame you for your attitude, your way of dealing with her or even with other people. So do not expect it to change overnight and become the perfect woman, the one that fits you in every way.
As I often say, a couple is the mix between two worlds and two personalities and they are never the same! That is why we must make the effort not to expect a relationship I could call "Hollywoodian", that is to say without any defect. It is obvious that you must speak to your partner if her behavior bothers you and expect her to change but you do not want to format it because the natural returns very quickly and you could only make things worse.
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